I saw this mom do a coming of age ceremony for her daughter where she threw an intimate dinner party for her. She had other women in her life come and they brought gifts, gave advice about womanhood, and talked about mental health for women. GENUIS
Being a former people pleaser so shitty because now you gotta set boundaries thats never been established before n people think you being weird just because you’re not as accessible as before
Once I distinguished that it wasn't that I didn't matter to them because they would've treated me better, it was instead that people's behavior is a sign of their own wounds, insecurities and a reflection of how they treat themselves, I swear I became untouchable.
Little did I know my mother would die this year & I would lose myself, go through that pain to find myself again. Crazy how much could change in 6 months.