My friend said the happiness he gets from being married to his wife equates to the satisfaction people get from financial security when they look at their bank account. He is not even rich but he is very content and very happy. I've known him for over a decade and his financial situation has never affected his mood or relationship. Very decent fellow.
One day he was with me what she called his wife and told her he is feeling very generous and she should ask for anything. This woman said "popcorn" and he laughed. He told her that your husband is feeling generous and you are asking for popcorn. She said, "but that is what I want na. Buy me popcorn."
I just smiled and shook my head because I know many rich people who do not have what he has.
To The Men Planning to Get Married
Don’t marry a woman because you want someone to cook, clean, care for your parents, and sacrifice herself for your comfort.
She is not a maid.
Marry only if you’re ready to protect her, respect her, defend her, and stand beside her the same way you expect loyalty from her.
Don’t bring a woman into your home just to leave her fighting battles alone. Be a husband and be there for her.
The rain you see in Ghana isn’t anything extra. You’re not remotely close to an actual natural disaster. None of your problems are complex. You’re dealing with issues other countries have solved a century ago. The blueprint is there. Don’t let Mahama sweet talk you.
There was a guy in my office, the smartest person on the entire floor. Everyone knew it. He trained almost every new employee.
Last year a management position opened. Everyone assumed he would get it. Instead they promoted the CEO’s nephew. The nephew was 24 and had been with the company for 7 months. He couldn’t even do half the job.
Guess who was assigned to train him? The same man they had passed over. He trained his own boss.
For 11 months he smiled and did it. Then one Friday afternoon he resigned.
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the world doesn’t run on a lack of solutions, it runs on which solutions are allowed to exist.
pay attention;
nikola tesla wanted to give the world free wireless energy but when investors realized electricity would be free, they cut off his funding & after he died, us agents took all of his research papers and burnt them cos his discoveries could've changed the world.
stanley meyer built a car that ran on water by extracting hydrogen from it, he even showed it working in public but not long after, he suddenly collapsed during the dinner night. it was reported as poisoning and his invention disappeared soon after.
then eugene mallov, a scientist and former MIT researcher discovered cold fusion could create almost unlimited clean energy so after years of promoting it, he was found murdered under mysterious circumstances. they say his work was too dangerous and will not protect powerful interests, now with his death the breakthrough faded away.
raymond wright, an american inventor who created a microscope powerful enough to see live viruses something unheard of at the time but what shocked people even more was his claim that he built a machine that could destroy cancer cells without damaging or harming healthy ones, he was discredited, murdered, his case was dismissed outrightly and they buried the machine months later.
now, it stops sounding like coincidence right? and you start to notice a dreadful pattern.
the truth is, it’s not that the world lacks solutions, it’s that most solutions are too disruptive to survive, they explicitly threaten power and the govt will do anything humanly possible to protect itself and the system even if it means erasing your existence or taking a life. learn, buena suerte 👍
The most frightening person i ever witnessed was a man who only wanted one thing. everybody around him had a hundred plans, a hundred projects they were going to start next month, and he had one, just one. and he never talked about it much, and that was the part that unnerved you, because when someone talks a lot about what they want, you can relax. talking is letting the pressure out, so it's harmless. but he was airtight.
Everything in him was moving toward one point, in silence. within a few years he was in a place no one else could reach, and everybody who had watched him stood there scattered and confused, with their mouths full of plans that never solidified into anything. i learned from watching him that the mouth is a leak. every time you say what you are going to do, you lose a piece of the will that would have done it
Being in a serious relationship means moving with respect, not just freedom. Nobody’s controlling you, but some things simply stop being worth it when you value your partner. Before making a move, ask yourself: “Would I be okay if they did this?” That’s where real respect starts.