Men will have sex with other literal men if imprisoned long enough so forgive me if I don’t fall for the bait from the “we think hip dips are ugly” crowd.
The reason your mother fried Akara to send you to school is so that you can be a better citizen of the society and have a fighting chance against poverty. She didn't do it for you to come online and defend frying of Akara as economic empowerment. Don't waste her efforts.
In 200level, I tried to shake hands with a guy in my class(I didn't know you can't shake hands with members of the opposite sex as a Muslim) and he said it was haram to shake my hand. I asked why and he got visibly angry so I dropped it.
That same afternoon, we were supposed to go to the main campus for histology practical and we were both late so we somehow got round to taking a bike together and he sat behind me.
When we got to the laboratory, I asked him why it was haram to shake my hand but it wasn't haram to sit behind me on a bike especially as the bike thingy exposed us to more touching than a handshake.
He didn't answer me. He actually hasn't answered me till today and it's been four years.
This man murdered his pregnant wife then strangled both his daughters and threw them in a water tank. This is the picture they use when they speak about him. Privilege is really wild to me.
Someone is telling the world that he’s held a grudge since day one because no one stood behind his door, even though the person he’s blaming was rejected that same day, and there are people arguing with a straight face that he’s anything but a childish, pathetic loser.
The painful thing about the children that were kidnapped in oyo is that no one in this current misfortune of an administration is saying anything about those babies. This is so cruel, they have been there for 44 fucking days!!!
Not FOUR men asking me if they can use my fan at the function yesterday . When i asked them whyrget didn’t just theirs, one of them said “it’s for women, it’s okay to use yours as long as it doesn’t belong to me” 😭
the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most