ppl don’t understand that finding out you don’t like men is totally different from realizing you like women, and the struggle of not being seen as a “real woman” by a patriarchal society because of your lack of attraction to men is a very unique experience
Sometimes male anger at ‘women getting special treatment’ reminds me of a gorilla experiment. One gorilla gets a banana every hour. The females next to him get one every four hours. Then someone decides to be fairer and gives the females a banana every two hours instead. The original gorilla? He flips out. He's still getting his banana every hour, but it feels like a loss because his advantage shrank. That's how a lot of men react to basic fairness for women: not as justice, but as theft.
The secret to being a private person is to overshare dumb shit so that people think you’re an open book but then not tell them any of the important details of your life