@luxemiaa Personally, how I was raised, my lady pays for nothing. Unless she surprises me with a gift. Now if I couldn’t financially afford it, I wouldn’t suggest it.
@GigglingGanon He gains nothing from antagonizing police. If anything once the officer made sure he was good, he could have sat in front of him or behind to radar people.
@Divyaadu It’s normal to not own a car in NYC. As a man, on the first date, I’d at most uber her to and from. If there’s more dates and everything goes well, then I’d be more open to ubering to her and then taking us both to where ever the location is.
@MurrayHillGuy1 Realistically if 2 people are dating and actively trying to pursue a real relationship, then neither should be doing anything with anybody else. However it’s 2026 and nobody follows that anymore unfortunately.