I don’t like the idea that you’re never supposed to express your insecurities because someone, somewhere, may want to use that against you. Eh, I think it’s better advice to be strong and have pride in all sides of you, so nobody can take your truth and use it as a weapon.
Gender Dysphoria isn't what makes us trans. It's a psychological disorder that points us in the direction of our gender identity. The degree to which you feel distressed from it, what form it takes and how far you change your body for it don't make up ones true trans essence
I think the reason why a lot of trans people (including me) are averse to "just do t4t" as dating advice is not that we aren't open to dating other trans people, but because it makes us feel like other trans people are our ONLY option
and even if none of this happened they were written off as a feminist who just wanted male privilege, the same excuse people use to deny trans mens' identities now
a lot of trans men in history were wrote off as women 🤣🤣🤣#girlpower strong woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 woman lives as a man and no one knew until after death wow what a strong woman having to disguise herself 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂
this shit really sucks
researching historically significant trans men is so fun
died by suicide at 20
died of aids at 39
died of ovarion cancer due to medical transphobia
raped and murdered at 21
no wonder even other trans people think we had no part in queer history, so many never had a chance
MUSCULAR QUEER GUYS that constantly exclude themselves from queer conversations are low lives. 👌🏾
You don’t want to loose your “fit in privileges” but want to benefit from privileges fem queer people fought for. You can’t even stand up for other queer people at your work space?
hey just a psa to anyone who may not realise this but if someone you know uses threats of self-harm to coerce women into being sexual with him that person is a sexual predator and an abuser. just so we’re all clear on this.
people used to tell me that they found me very intimidating to speak to and that I came off as being really arrogant. eventually I realized that the reason there was such a disconnect between what they saw and I saw was because I was masking
To be clear, I do not mean expressing your insecurities to strangers online who genuinely do not have good intentions but like being afraid of telling someone you consider a friend your truth. If they use it against you, fuck them, they’re insecure and weird.
it’s tragic that some queers have to cover their true colors because we don’t have a truly safe zone 🥲 hope everyone is surrounded with people who respect queers as a human being
people hate on elektra, jessica jones, natasha, yelena, black widow, captain marvel, ms marvel AND especially shehulk
but no its because they’re annoying and not because you’re a misogynist right?
Gue mulai ga suka sama kata2 "pilihan dia asal ga ngerugiin orang" karena terasa jadi blanket statement untuk membenarkan kritik (yg mungkin awalnya bukan ke pribadi) jadi diarahkan ke "ini semata masalah pilihan pribadi". Tapi ah tau apalah saya.
Orang-orang terlalu idealis, padahal jangan lah bahas come out dulu, ngebela LGBTQ+ doang pun udah jadi bahan cemooh.
Belom merasakan kena outing, dihajar sama ortu sendiri, dikata-katain omongan yang nyakitinnya masih kerasa meskipun udah lama. 🚶
Gak rekomen
@cottonchocoe Classism still run rampants. If I say that most Indonesian queers culture still feels rooted in high-life hedonistic capitalistic lifestyle they'd kill me
i’ve noticed people that are obSESSED w morality policing others tend to be the absolute worst judgemental people ever who have much shittier morals and characters than the people they try to control