Patriarchy’s greatest move is getting women to enforce it on each other,now men don’t even have to say anything. Women in your life will do it,women in the market and on the internet will do it. The constant surveillance gets crowdsourced and they think they are helping you.
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult