If words of affirmation is your love language, enroll in online college classes. No one gives unconditional positive feedback like a student required to reply to a discussion post.
"Every kid learns differently. They are learning outdoor skills and conservation, how to be patient, social & emotional skills that come with it. All of those things go way beyond fishing."-Cole Nelson, @JohnRexSchool teacher. https://t.co/Ti76KUivci via @theoklahoman_@OPCSA
If I had to choose between spiritual giftedness and spiritual fruitfulness, give me the fruit EVERY DAY.
What good is an impatient prophet, a great communicator with no self-control, a word of wisdom or knowledge that’s unkind or lacks gentleness?
Give me the fruit.
A leadership lesson I wish I had learned earlier: it’s okay to be vulnerable about your weaknesses with those you lead. If you care about more than yourself, you will be honest and communicative about your shortcomings with your team. If you don’t, they’ll be everyone’s ceiling.
One of the best friends I’ve made is fear. I’ve decriminalized it in my life & realized that fear and peace can coexist. Anything worthwhile that I’ve done has been accompanied by a healthy dose of fear. So instead of avoiding fear, we’ve just become comfortable with one another.
One of the best things that ever happened to me was the identity crisis I had about my “calling”. Losing what you think you’re “called to” opens your eyes to the lie YOU’ve created about your identity. Conquer that and you can live un-phased by change & the opinions of others.
I’m learning that it’s not enough just to let someone sit at the table. That should have been an open invitation from the start. It’s time to stop talking and start listening. To sit at a table where everyone looks like you and your opinion is king, is the antithesis of heaven.
There comes a day when every leader must decide what their shoulders will be:
a bulldozer for their own agenda or a platform for others to stand on.
(hint: choose the latter. Pun intended).