PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT
Obsess. For f*ck sakes. You only get one life. Don’t screw it up by being normal. Go all in. Act like a psycho. Let people call you insane. Please. I beg you. Obsession is the path.
Also. Being indirect is ruining your life. Be clear. Be concise. Be honest. Mean what you say and say what you mean. If you love someone, let them know. (And then do something about it.) And if you don't, let them go.
i love how people are going to the gym, joining run clubs, book clubs, playing badminton and pickleball, attending concerts, doing yoga and pilates, crocheting, baking, journaling, going to therapy, traveling solo, trying pottery, learning instruments... everyone is try to heal
I don't know who needs to hear this, but start living. The days are flying by, and all you do is work, pay bills, and stress. Enjoy what you can… walks, sunsets, music, laughter. Joy doesn't have to be expensive. You deserve it.
Nothing beats waking up on a weekend knowing you don’t have any pending tasks from work. No chores, no outings with friends. Just sleeping in, eating, and watching movies. A weekend spent doing nothing is a weekend well spent.
the biggest flex today is not being addicted to your phone or having brain rot...
still being able to read long books, concentrate, watch a real movie, sit in silence and meditate, have a conversation without picking up your phone every 10 seconds
rare breeds
I don’t mean to sound like your mom but the lack of routine and discipline in life, waking up without purpose, being idle and spending too much time on the bed with your phone will lead to terrible mental health. That’s a given.