I don’t encourage false positivity. Be sad when you’re sad. Cry when you need to. Be angry if you are. Let it out. Then let it go. Honour your emotions but always choose to dwell on the positive ones.
There comes a day in your 20s when the generational difference between you and your parents suddenly becomes crystal clear and you have to make peace with the fact that there’s some part of them that will never change because that’s just how they were raised by their times.
One of my favourite nerdy Titanic facts is that the process of filming the 1997 film actually helped solve a big mystery about the sinking: what happened to the grand staircase.
“you can survive a mass shooting: if you’re prepared.” how is this acceptable? are we just supposed to be paranoid & hyper alert every time we leave the house? supposed to train our children to do the same? train kids to come up with a fighting strategy instead of banning guns?
Clothes can be expensive I get that, but if you’re still buying shein wtf you doing? Do you understand the waste that company causes, the horrible work conditions people work in, awful pay they get, and not too mention the art they steal? Figure it out people.
I hope all the people who lied to their doctors about needing adhd meds are happy. Nothing like struggling for 22 years in every aspect of my life just to have a shortage a few years later 👍🏼
We all deserve a partner that brings joy, peace, soulmate-vibes & great sex, but the reality is that a healthy partnership that we want to last also requires difficult conversations, facing triggers, owning our shit, periodic heartache, time+space on our own & lots of negotiating