Thatβs completely understandable. Anyone whoβs ever run an event knows how gutting it feels when someone whoβs already agreed just no-calls and no-shows. Itβs a terrible feeling. The bare minimum of common courtesy is a quick heads-up, like βHey man, something came up,β so you at least have a chance to pivot. When it hits the day of with zero warning, youβre forced to just push through and keep the show moving. I completely get how frustrating that would be, especially in Ludwigβs position.
Ludwig reveals that the streamers who backed down last second after they got invited to Streamer Games will not be invited to any event moving forward π
"The people who I'm not inviting back to my events are the ones who agreed to attend and backed down without telling me..."
Sometimes it really is that simple.
Before 2023 I was the classic βnice guyβ who struggled with flirting and charisma. Nobody took me seriously. The real shift started when I got serious about fitness and health. That built actual confidence. From there I worked on reading the room and being more charismatic. The difference was night-and-day. People suddenly treated me differently.
When I bring it up, folks say βYouβve always been like thisβ or call me lucky. Nah. It took real work. My answer is always the same: use your strengths, fix the weaknesses youβre avoiding, and put in the effort. No shortcuts.
And as Duke implied donβt objectify women, donβt befriend people just to sleep with them. Focus on boundaries and consent. Thatβs the part that lasts. Solid advice.
Guys what if I end up with someone that likes getting beat up like how am I supposed to deal with their attitude what if one day I go imma fight you and mf goes βpromise?β WHAT THEN
All jokes aside, I know this is just a clip-farming moment, but it still touches on a real conversation about whether Black people should say the N-word. Thereβs always a risk that parts of the audience, whether white or any other ethnicity, will start using it too.ββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββββ
Thatβs why I personally stay away from it. It would feel unnatural for me, and I know I could easily start throwing the word around just for βstyle pointsβ or to play into a more hood/gangster image so certain audiences accept me (or so I can exploit the trend). Doing that feels more like catering than being authentic. Itβs a weird double-edged sword either way.
Cinna tells Jay Cinco that she prefers to refrain from saying "n*gga" despite being half black, with her dad being black and encouraging her to say it to embrace her black side.
She then says that she doesn't like to say it due to her pronunciation of the word not sounding "black" enough and she doesn't feel like it fits the way she talks to people.
Jay Cinco: "Are you black, Cinna?"
Cinna: "Yeah, I'm half"
Jay Cinco: "You can say n*gga right?"