@jakesimon buuuut.. isn't @tryexponent $12 per month (as least with yearly billing)?
crazy to see the diff for yearly vs monthly billing you have.. wondering how much that was A/B tested ๐ค
Seeing someone next to yourself doomscrolling through a newsfeed on their phone will in some not too distant future evoke similar feelings as witnessing someone doing heroine or meth. #phones#addiction
@Aella_Girl powerful in what way? creation ability? intensity?
i've personally shifted the min reqs more to "wanting to be able to be fully seen" + somewhat complementary so we can both grow
the "rmtc prtnr model" feels kinda outdated for s.o. like u, u can create ur own custom "rls network"
@EvilVizier not directly income, but to certain extent caring about traits which are associated with being able to generate income / provide for a family. biological programming since industrial evolution faster than genetical evolution :D
@HedonistRat hmm, rly? done that before but it feels more like filling the void instead of facing being by myself, cuz I actually didnโt care much abt that second girl in the first place.
The better evenings for me have actually been suddenly spending time with myself instead of sex numbing
@goblinodds recently realizing I might be โautisticโ / neurodiverse without being โimpairedโ much gave me a lot more clarity on life, my upbringing and people around me ๐คฏโจ
there are reasonable arguments for why one might not want to give autism diagnoses to people who aren't "impaired" by it but imo either
A) "autism" doesn't warrant diagnosis at all (as opposed to e.g. "sensory sensitivity")
B) diagnosis shouldn't be limited to the "impaired" 1/
the problem with a filled dating CRM is that you can just constantly numbfuck yourself instead of figuring yourself out. some of my most insightful evenings recently when ppl cancel on me ๐ฅณ๐ฅ
Life is like a metroidvania. sometimes you just hit some unmanageable boundary and unless you can glitch the game out, you just have to go back and explore other parts.
Then when you return later, it might just be extremely simple now.
@MarkovMagnifico For me itโs about finding the right balance between using rational/emotional and planning/spontaneity. So e.g. putting a lot of things in cal as options but then deciding in the moment what to do. Commitments only when it really โfeelsโ right. Not overrationalizing too much.