Relationships/marriages can really be simple and easily understood. Two adults mature enough to hold themselves accountable and have respect for one another ❤️
Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… All that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
It’s called "reactive abuse." Pushing a man into a corner, attacking his insecurities, constantly manufacturing chaos, and the split second he loses his cool and reacts, you pull out the victim card and completely absolve yourself of the provocation. We hold men accountable for their reactions, but completely ignore the women who engineered the breakdown.
Teacher: Why are you late?
Student: My dad is in the hospital
*7 days later*
Teacher: Is your dad still in the hospital?
Student: Yes. He's a doctor.
Teacher:
@NickStillHere@meechoeking___ I was just having this conversation 48 hours ago. In the grand scheme of things if thats my “girl” it shouldn’t be another nigga having done more things with her than me. If I found out my chick had a 3sum I better get a 6sum or I just mentally couldn’t move forward 🤷🏾♂️
Nobody talks about the stage of grief where you can't even talk about it to anyone anymore because everyone expects you to be getting over it but it still runs through your mind everyday.