The cis: "I can't ask pronouns, what if I offend someone inadvertently?! I can't be expected to guess! Besides this is confusing the children and inappropriate!"
Also the cis:
@EcoTechBro Like keeping a secret in a relationship isn't in and of itself bad, but a relationship where keeping secrets is necessary isn't ideal. But even that's too broad a statement cause I know just from being gay how hard it is to come out even to people you know will be accepting
@EcoTechBro It's not deception or anything, their partner has no grounds to act like they're being violated or whatever other nonsense you hear from biphobes on this hellsite. That said if there's something neutral that you can't tell your partner it raises questions about the relationship
A lot of the TERF discourse around that BBC article is really reminiscent of the Janice Raymond idea that trans women are violating cis women just by existing isn't it.
It starts with a couple of cases of women being assaulted by trans women, then they start talking about being told they should accept trans women as partners, then trans women in lesbian spaces, *then* trans women calling themselves lesbians... and these are apparently the same
Obviously sexual assault is bad and no one should feel obligated to have sex with anyone they don't want to but they start from that then move onto the existence of trans women full stop and it's clear what they're doing
the stereotype that vegans go around announcing that they are vegan is so untrue. majority of vegans don’t even want y’all to know unless it’s important to the convo bc y’all immediately start justifying why you think it’s okay to kill animals & how you could never go vegan.
so calling them victims is too "loaded" for a court setting but calling them rioters and looters based on allegations and asserting that narrative in court as if it's part of the stipulations, is totally admissible?
People feed their boys more than their girls then act like it's some force of nature that their girls are physically weak. No hon, you just starved them and told them it was normal
@MockWooloo@pill_swallow they'll ignore them for the same reason they've never heard of it happening. The mere existence of retransitioning people is incompatible with their worldview. So they defensively ignore it to keep anyone else in their cult from hearing about it and questioning things
@pill_swallow when all of the information you receive is filtered through your enablist echo chamber of fucking course you wouldn't have heard of it. You're not ALLOWED to hear of it.
Lol I've been open about my detransition in the early 00s and my "retransition" or whatever since it started in 2012. I personally know around a dozen other folks like me. You people just block out anything that doesn't fit in with the party line of your cult.
The idea that trans women need to pressure anyone into sex is so laughably absurd. The desire for trans bodies is insatiable. The problem is that it’s not public. It’s on porn and escort sites, the DM’s of every trans woman, in low whispers in bars and on public transportation.
@madain_o @e_chiswell @Docstockk @sussexucu fucking seriously. They want other countries to stay out of it? They should stay the fuck out of other countries then