hardest pill i’ve had to swallow this year so far was learning that no matter how good you can be to someone, no matter how long you’ve been there for them, no matter how much you love them.. that they CAN & they WILL turn their back on you & there's nothing you can do but detach
I don’t support side bítch behavior, if you’re a bítch talking to a nígga knowing he has a girl it really just says a lot about your worth and the respect you have for yourself. Y’all be thinking yall bad bítches messing around with someone else’s man when your really just a low class ho who’s not that hard to please & regardless of you not owing her any loyalty as a woman you should want better for yourself than being someone’s coleslaw bae
Woman are reciprocators. Not initiators. You lead, she follow. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirror it. That's the only
Way it works.
I realized I’m the problem. I allow people to do me any kinda way, and I just, love them anyway. Sometimes harder. I tend to choose people who aren't willing to choose me. and hold onto people I should let go of. but l am a pourer. I try to pour life, positivity and energy into everyone around me without having the right people in my life to pour it back... That stops. I gotta love me more than I love y'all
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.