The fastest way to detach from a person that you genuinely wanted in your life so badly is to:
let them do what they want, so you can see what they would rather do. If they want to lose you, let them. If they choose someone else, let them. The heartbreak of them confirming your feelings is so much better than letting them drain your life force energy any longer.
I like my people soft. I like my people emotional, expressive, passionate, and honest. Give me people who feel deeply, communicate openly, love loudly, and aren’t afraid to be vulnerable. I’ll take genuine over emotionally unavailable any day.
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Nothing is gonna ruin a relationship faster than seeing your partner showing up for people in a way that you wanted them to show up for you. Because this means that, oh yeah, you actually have the capacity to be a good human being, just not to me.
And this also applies to friends — people who do not seem to show up for you in a way, but you know that they can do to other people? Just no.