No one is asking why BC this is a terrible place but it's because I keep seeing ppl talking and arguing about rape and it's horribly distressing for me
Wasn't expecting this much attention here, but there is no universally applicable good advice for any of these groups bc fat/trans men have many different body types and desired styles
Fat man clothing advice: wear your trousers high waisted, it looks better
Trans man clothing advice: only women wear trousers higher at the waist, wear low rise if you want to pass
Fat trans man clothing advice (?): wear your trousers low rise so you pass as a man who looks bad
@dr_kai_phd Tbf it's annoying (and very confusing when yr a fat trans guy who hasn't figured out clothing stuff and has a lot of dysphoria around it) but I've mostly figured it out for my own body now
Oh hi Facebook memories about someone who pretended to be ok when I shared about abuse / assault from an ex then told said ex and laughed about me with them. Have you considered death because I have
Wearing a flamboyant, androgynous outfit while thinking about the fact I'm a trans man (😢) Vs
Wearing a flamboyant, androgynous outfit while thinking about the fact I'm an artist/musician (🤩🙂↕️)
When other autistic ppl say bpd is just complex trauma + autism I do not think that's correct I think they had the common misdiagnosis and may perhaps struggle with black and white thinking + also theory of mind