Not everything happens for a reason.
Some things happen because life is fucking brutal.
Because people are fucking cruel.
Because you were unprotected.
And none of that was your fault.
When someone dies by suicide, people ask:
Why didn’t they talk to someone?
What were they thinking?
How could they do that?
But when someone tries to open up, the world often says:
You’re overreacting.
You’ll be fine.
You’re too sensitive.
That’s life get on with it.
Silencing people in pain and then judging their silence is one of the cruellest things we do as a society.
The way my anger and protectiveness has intensified as a mom. It was pretty strong to begin with but not towards myself.
I never thought I’d go toe to toe with my husband or family members. My perspectives have shifted immensely.
It takes two people to create a baby... but it was MY bones that made his, it was MY body that stretched. It was MY blood giving him nutrients. it was OUR hearts beating together. It was MY body that created every detail of HIM.
So tell me again why you would ever even think I play about how my child is treated...?
“Marriage is the most sacred relationship on earth.” No. Motherhood is.
The hardest pill to swallow is realizing that most people simply don’t care. They can hurt you deeply and then continue with their lives completely unaffected, without a second thought about what they did or how you’re feeling. It doesn’t matter if it’s a friend, a partner or family.
Whenever I see people fighting over whether they were a Nick kid or a Disney kid or a Cartoon Network kid, I get so confused bc y’all were just picking one…? I was flipping between all them mfs😩
We live in some kind of a backwards society where you don’t get fucked with for being a bad person, you get fucked with for being a good person. It’s really weird
People assume I isolate myself bc I'm antisocial, but truth is, I just observe how fake everything is and choose peace over chaos. It's a whole show out here with a bunch of clowns, and real ones are rare, so i'm cool with keeping to myself.