Neither of us knew what it would turn into. I was immature, afraid of any real commitment, and determined to mess up anything good in my life. But after meeting them, I wanted to be better, I wanted to prove that I could be in it for the long haul. And god it was so worth it.
SWcience offers one answer. When we meet someone and feel that pull toward them, the brain floods with chemicals — dopamine for craving, oxytocin for bonding, a whole quiet chemistry of wanting and belonging.hat is love?