@rudiepilled of course, you are entitled to feel the things you do, its unfortunate to hear that has happened to you but im relieved to hear its something you've distanced yourself from and you can look at it with clearer lenses, im happy 4 uu
@pillowyy_ and people automatically go into it as 'its inexcusable, ur a pedo you like didy media and you should hang, ur a minor? u should still hang' because the MINUTE the 'perfect victim' doesnt exist they will string you up by your balls
@jackf43825 because there is, i feel like saying 'because I'm a grooming victim and i have not done this because it as something that has NO excuse' makes it look like you dont really have any interest in learning what people who have experienced slightly different things than you,see things
@jackf43825 this and not someone who is unfamiliar with this, in terms of experience, i dont think that alone is a justification for saying what is and isnt an excuse because at least what ive gone through has happened to me more than 5 times and to be truthful, there are levels to this and—
@rudiepilled a result of grooming. that's at least what happened to me and to be clear its not that im excusing it but i wish people saw the more nuanced side to this as someone whos fallen into shit like that and was deathly afraid of ANYONE knowing in fear of my wellbeing and those i knew
@rudiepilled i mean yea it makes sense why youd be angry about being mislead but as a recovered darkshipper i told noone because it was too complicated the 'reason why' and ive seen and heard horrible things happen to literal minorities for something that very well could have been—