i get that we're attached to the names cos the babies themselves gave it to us but they have given us another beautiful name too right? that addresses the whole fandom? moas ♥ they've even made a song with that name so yeah
-more secure as a fandom, even despite how these subfandom names may have been given to us by the boys themselves. note as well that we have only been addressed as moa and as moa only up until now.
but I also know I guess it wouldn't be easy to just let go of these-
@justdancebinch you mean using those names as the members nicknames right? thats nice too but i hope solos don't end up using that against us in the future too its bad for us since they are given by the members themselves 😭 but ig we can spread amongst ourselves its an only ot5 moa term
i do believe we can still have a proper conversation about this, we are doing it right now slowly, lets just lay down all the unnecessary insults and pointing fingers and assumptions when we can all just talk things through. this is how we grow.
we are all moas here. we all just want to support and shower our love for xtx to the fullest, so lets so exactly that by working through this together.
lets not go down that route. our own peeps here who are also just moas like us that wants what is best for our fandom and for our boys are being jumped, insulted, hated and misunderstood. come on now, we can do better than this.
-any hate? no. if anything they were the ones that were thrown hate by people who wont want to see their side and instead choose to insult and even discriminate them. now those are the people who only want to stir trouble.
-spew out hate and insult. now that is a person that is only stirring out trouble.
and with the discourse we are having today, do you really think that the people who brought this conflict at the table for us to discuss upon is only here to be irrational? did they spew-
-jumping on the person? not everytime and not everybody is out there saying things just to create problems. we can scrutinize if someone is really just creating an issue or not. a way we can see that is if they are being irrational with their claims and is starting to-
-cannot be refuted as means for all of us to have a proper conclusion. especially when clearly there is an issue that that person is seeing that many of us may not see. and even if there wasn't, then why can't we settle that down with some talk instead of immediately-
you know.. this whole narrative of "why are you making this an issue" ultimately? just invalidates anyone's concerns or even feelings about things. we really must learn how to have a proper discourse instead of immediately assuming that anything said here with a stance-
@btxtyun@RMusic____ + im glad we're all having a discussion abt this today. i don't think you still get what I'm trying to say😭 solos can be really harmful once they find a place in the fandom and it can AFFECT the boys
@btxtyun@RMusic____ solos don't give a shit abt fandoms😭 they're all just the same, SOLO STANS AKA ANTIS. they are not gonna act different just cos we're moas. and the part where "the fandom dgaf abt solos" needs to change.
@justdancebinch yeah🥺😭 the nicknames can be used when we're talking with ot5 moas that we're friends with nd all yk BUT we have a beautiful fandom name that the boys use to address us with ALWAYS so why would we use another one
@RMusic____ yeah to us its like that but solos don't give shit abt any of it. to them its the name given by their fav member aka the one who they stan and they're gonna use it against us in every way possible