stop marrying and committing your lives to people just based on love and love alone. you'll lose every time. respect is important, fidelity is important, FINANCES are important, spiritual growth is important. there is more to marriage than love.
Multiple Indonesian trans women were beaten, kicked, and doused with urine during a violent attack on the streets while trying to survive amid systemic poverty.
We urge international media, human rights organizations, and the global community to help ensure this incident receives the international attention it deserves and to demand accountability, as violence against transgender people in Indonesia continues to raise serious human rights concerns.
SHYNESS MAKES YOU LOOK WEAK
Be arrogant. Confidence is key to everything. Social skills are important. You’re more than enough. Don’t be afraid to look stupid. Ask questions. Get what you want. Let them judge you. It’s all in your head. Speak up. Share what’s on your mind. Your opinions and preferences matter.
When you were a kid, being shy was considered something normal. But the moment you grow up, when you have ambitions, dreams to fulfill, and desires to satisfy - nobody will come and ask what you want.
👉 You must let the whole world know.
Otherwise, you’ll keep replaying scenarios in your head while lying in bed trying to fall asleep. Thoughts like, “I should’ve said this.” “I could’ve had that.” “I embarrassed myself… i feel so much shame” will consume your energy, and you’ll wake up tired and broken. You’ll visualize the life you want, wishing you could spend more time in your dreams, because the lack of inner work makes life after waking up feel wasted.
All because of one fragile obstacle: caring too much about what others think of you.
Just go do something unusual in public. Nothing bad will happen to you. Make the outside world your training ground, where there’s no Final Boss, only people passing by that you’ll probably never see again.
Opportunities will be everywhere. The people you resonate with most, the love of your life, meaning in what you do, an endless amount of interests are all on the other side of the bridge.
The only thing you need to cross it is delusional confidence, and not treating every stranger seriously with their useless opinions.
The older i get, the more i realize that someone making time for you is one of the clearest signs they care. Everyone is busy. Everyone has responsibilities and their own battles to fight. So when someone consistently chooses to spend their time with you, checks on you, and makes space for you in their life, it means something. time is one thing we can never get back, and people don't give it away lightly.
@Puspen_PKI 2 kesalahan fatal Jokowi tuh cuman ninggalin utang bejibun sama bangun dinasti politik dgn kesadaran penuh, kayak dia udah ga peduli aja jutaan masyarakat indonesia nontonin permainan politiknya, TAPI overall dia better than prabowo
Ternyata skill mahal yang harus di kuasai di usia 20-30an adalah skill mengatur suasana hati dan emosi. Jangan apa-apa di baperin. pls don't expect too much, manusia bisa berubah kapan aja. Hari ini suka, besok bisa tidak. Semua bisa hilang, semua bisa pergi kapan aja.