Objectivity is a myth in most cases. The closest one can get in proximity is entertaining opposing view points and multiple perspectives. Then charting a path forward.
One of my old pastors used to say “the measure of a man is weighed by the amount of people who depend on him.” That becomes more and more apparent to me every year.
A lot of men don’t want daughters & I think that comes from a deeply rooted understanding that they aren’t the man they would want their daughter with.