If you have a "crush" on me and I see you flirting with any other women openly, I'll NEVER take you seriously. That's just how I'm wired. If I see you saying the same shit to someone else, I box you into a "whatever" category that it's impossible to get moved from.
yet again husband and I are having trouble getting stuff done bc we can't stop talking. this is a common problem for us. accidentally staying up too late because our conversation is too interesting, etc
I said "ok let's stop talking for now" and he agreed. minutes later I called out "hey I just got a crazy idea" without thinking. ah shit. he came over to talk with me. we agreed we should stop after this one last thing. I told him about it, and then right away he started on something else. I said no we have to stop. I told him we should try complete silence for 30min to break the cycle. that's where we're at now. TBD if we will survive another 25min of this
The amount of black KIDS that have been found swingin from trees or found dead by the hands of their "friends" or just because of the color of their skin in the last month is so disheartening and not enough people are speaking out about it😭