Education is SOOOOO IMPORTANT. Degrees, licenses, certs. Training classes. Late nights and early morning studying. Weekend and night school. Community college, don’t matter what it takes. JUST DO IT.
one day you’ll be so proud of yourself because you finally passed your hardest moments and all your hard work paid off. you won’t feel useless, lonely, or lost anymore. you’ll be living, and you’ll be okay with everything.
Princess treatment doesn’t mean he buys me whatever I want. It means he LISTENS. He PROTECTS. He LEADS. He is HUMBLE. He communicates. He doesn't let me go to sleep crying or upset. He doesn't makes me feel like I'm hard to love. He is my PEACE in chaos and my HOME.
the intimacy of sleeping together, but not in a s*xual way. the intimacy of feeling the warmth of their body in a cool room hugging you tightly. the intimacy of synchronized breathing. sleepy half-kisses, feeling safe. feeling warm. waking up and realizing how much you love them.
I love men that are aware of how emotional women can be, a man that is soft and gentle towards you emotionally, gives you reassurance without having to make you feel any guilt for overthinking, those men are top tier.
Bare minimum in a relationship
- call/text every single day.
- cooking for them.
- calming and reassuring them when they are in doubt.
- buying them gifts (price don’t matter, it’s more of the act)
- speaking to each other without insulting/belittling
- no threat, gaslighting or abuse whatsoever.
- actively listening without judgment
CAN’T WAIT TO MOVE INTO A SIMPLE APARTMENT WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND FALL ASLEEP AND WAKE UP NEXT TO THEM AND COOK DINNER WITH THEM AND HAVE RANDOM MIDNIGHT TRIPS AND STAY UP LATE PLAYING VIDEO GAMES OR WATCHING MOVIES AND BEING ABLE TO SHARE EVERY MOMENT OF MY LIFE WITH THEM
CAN’T WAIT TO MOVE INTO A SIMPLE APARTMENT WITH THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND FALL ASLEEP AND WAKE UP NEXT TO THEM AND COOK DINNER WITH THEM AND HAVE RANDOM MIDNIGHT TRIPS AND STAY UP LATE PLAYING VIDEO GAMES OR WATCHING MOVIES AND BEING ABLE TO SHARE EVERY MOMENT OF MY LIFE WITH THEM