One thing church abuse can do is make you regularly question yourself.
Take a normal leadership situation and you keep questioning your instincts. Second guessing. Wondering if this person is safe or not. Literally gaslighting yourself.
Here’s what I learned:
I don’t know if my discernment got forever leveled or if it leveled up.
So these days I move much slower. And as my therapist often says, “slow is smooth and smooth is fast.”
Checking in with myself and discovering I don’t have to gaslight myself anymore; but trust the light within will guide me forward.
Beyond grateful. Thank you @sheilagregoire for your continued courage and work!
Give Sheila a follow, she’s winning Twitter these days. Give the episode a listen and let me know what you think.
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A few months back, @sheilagregoire kindly joined me on the @craft_character podcast to talk about finding healthier ways to preach on sex. Her wisdom, the data she and her team has discovered needs to be mandatory reading for pastors. The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better
Many have asked how to come alongside the Wilkins family as they grieve the passing of @jaredcwilkins. Miss him already. A few of us created a GoFundMe for Shauna and their 4 beautiful kids. Please consider donating and sharing:
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Senior Pastors, Teaching Pastors, Communicators it’s time to go deep in your preaching!
Join me, @mike_hickerson, @meganfate, and @steveryancarter for the next Ascent Leader cohort kicking off this Spring.
Visit @theascentleader to learn more and get your spot locked in today.
“The best messages come from your life.” - such a gift to talk with @bobgoff on the latest @craft_character podcast. We break down how Bob architects & arranges his talks and how you can truly live undistracted. This episode is pure gold for any communicator!
@tripleoxymoron@ZaktheCat Also - typically 2,500 is the mega church number. Tagging @AnnLindberg5 in this so she can see the exact numbers above. Thanks Ben.
@tripleoxymoron@ZaktheCat Thanks Ben: here are the attendance records for the past few weeks.
Rockford - 1/2 no in person gathering 1/9 494 1/16 569 1/23 453 and in Elgin -1/2 no in person gathering 1/9 104 1/16 155 1/23 147. All numbers include kids. Hope that helps.
@tripleoxymoron@RZIMhq Ben - the Forest City Church Website is under construction. Sorry for the inconvenience. The elder chair is David Sidney, the other elders currently are Sue Scott, Angela Lundin, and Mark Mienert. You can email them at [email protected] (it goes to every elder) or feel
Over the past couple of years, the wisdom of @JemarTisby has blessed, pushed, challenged, and deeply inspired through his writings. Get ready, this @craft_character episode was so moving as we talking about fighting racism through our preaching.
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