Has OP ever had a conversation with his wife? Bc based on this only; he wants to get his dick wet, but at no point has there been any communication as to why he's not.
No one is cutting up their lingerie bc "they feel like it". Not a thing. Something is going on & bro is too busy worrying about his dick instead of worrying about what he can change SO he can get freaky.
Men 😮💨
"Kinks including edging & denial".
I promise you, your kinks do not include that. You think you like it, but you'll be begging for mercy in an hour.