…no, i have just dated a trans man before and learned about the basics of transitioning and how sex works with one because of that.
this would be uncomfortable to receive even if you were right, please stop speculating on what genitals someone was born with.
@oliver_bluebug l is one of those crazy guys that doxxes people he disagrees with online and starts trying to track him down after he criticizes a bl that he likes…
people keep mentioning it’s really funny i’m posting this with the light yagami pfp and an au where light yagami is a fudanshi who critiques gay smut is a beautiful thought actually, lmao
join groups for your interests on the internet, find people that seem nice to talk to and try to hit it off, that sort of thing. it’s a bit more of a minefield, obviously, but so are dating apps. it’s easier to have a relationship come naturally in my experience than force it.
i’ve never been one for dating apps myself. honestly, i usually date in-person rather than relying on online avenues, go to bars and date people i know and the like. however, if that’s not an option, i’d recommend meeting people online outside the dating app setting.
it’s a lot of asks, so i’m not going to post all the screenshots to the reply to this, but i did read through them.
it honestly really sounds this guy just is doing the worst for you. i get that you don’t want it to be over and that it’s daunting and sad to end it, though.
true, and i really don’t get the obsession. whether someone is trans or not doesn’t make much different about them except them having some life experiences others don’t.
it’s a lot of asks, so i’m not going to post all the screenshots to the reply to this, but i did read through them.
it honestly really sounds this guy just is doing the worst for you. i get that you don’t want it to be over and that it’s daunting and sad to end it, though.
sorry, i think part of the ask got blocked by strawpage, but i get the basic idea.
it really sounds like this guy isn’t giving you a reason to keep going. loves like this in dark times are hard to let go of because you know how much it hurts to be alone.
not all guys are like this, even if it can feel that way after ending up with a few bad ones. it’s hard to find a good guy. however, if you find the right person, you won’t worry about performing correctly. you’ll be able to be happy without that anxiety.