@toluogunlesi Oh yeah the one about the lion’s den was a hit, I was one of those who sang the jingle for the second term and it was always on radio that year in Abeokuta and my siblings have been trying to look for it lol
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There is nothing bad in starting small.
Start your family elsewhere.
That's what it means to protect your wife from your family, & protect your family from her.
And both of you cover your "shame" together.
And no one will be counting the meat in your wife's pot of soup.
End.
some men do this, but the blame lies mostly on the ladies who decide to marry such men.
If you marry him while living with his parents, be prepared to stomach whatever you see.
It should be one condition you'll give to him before you marry him.
Don't even get pregnant for him.
house, go and rent your own kingdom, where you and your wife will stay.
You cannot be a king under your father's roof.
For me, it's a sign that you're not responsible.
You cannot be under your father's roof, and be impreganting another woman & having children there.
I know
You cannot be living under the same roof with your mother and your wife.
Except she's sick and has no one else to take care of her.
If she's sick, & she has daughters, she should go and live with her daughters (married or not).
And then if your father is alive and has his own
marry such men.
May be you need to ask them, if they're truly happy?
A woman's territory is her home.
If you as a man, owns a mansion with boys' quarters, and then your family member lives in the boys' quarters, your wife will still feel like her territory is being encroached.
belongs to his mother and remains a family house.
He should go and rent his own place where both of you will live as husband and wife.
A place devoid of any distractions, side talks, poke nosing, envy, competition etc.
A lot of women, out of desperation, have gone ahead to
Do not get married to any man, that doesn't live in his own house or rented apartment.
No matter how small the apartment is, & as long as he's the one paying for the rent.
It doesn't matter if he's the only son & his father is no more.
If the mother is still alive, that house
You deserve to be poured into as well, you deserve to be loved too
Its OK to want to be happy , you matter also , a good relationship is GIVE & TAKE and not give give give …