"death by a thousand paper cuts" is something people who are really interested in having long term successful relationships should know about. It's a lesson many learn after the fact tho. Like that guy who wrote about his wife divorcing him because he left dishes by the sink.
cuando fui a japón iba viajando en un tren y se vio el monte fuji. una señora japonesa que estaba al lado mío me miró, me sonrió y me mostró que en su celular había escrito en google traductor “tienes suerte de verlo, siempre está escondido detrás de las nubes”.