I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
@maddie_kelso Now how would that make sense? You know dang good & well he gave you and only you all of his attention. I’m not saying he’s perfect by no means, but really? Come on. I can tell you right now, cheating can be marked off bc he definitely was all about you when y’all were together.