Happy birthday to, big man.
I have read many of your comments and how you share real life experiences on my posts.
Thank you always, and God bless you 🙏.
So that's why I will always teach you young men the benefits of dating or getting married to a woman that has shame and is not greedy.
In most cases, it takes a woman who lacks absolute shame and who is greedy to cheat.
Because you'll not always have money.
Life is filled with ups and downs.
Let me distinguish between shame and greed.
It's possible that a woman who has shame can still cheat at least once in her marriage.
But she can take back her actions and may never do it again, and you'll never find out until you die.
But if she's greedy, she'll always be motivated by money and other material things.
Which will most likely always make her cheat. And she'll be shameless in it and would not even mind cheating with low lives and men who do not have anything to lose.
You'll see her threatening divorce or break up at any slightest opportunity because you're irritating her or chocking her space towards freedom.
And she doesn't even care about the consequences of being caught.
You must learn to lead your girlfriends without money and she must remain the same without money.
If she's feeling bad because you're broke or doesn't have enough money, it should be because she's genuinely concerned for you, and not because she's regretting ever dating you.
If she's your wife and she's feeling bad because you're broke, it should be because she is genuinely worried about how you're coping with thoughts of how you're going to meet your responsibilities, and not because she's thinking that she has made a mistake in getting married to you.
The difference between a good woman and a bad woman is SHAME.
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The worst mistake any of you young people can make is to be looking up to celebrities or online social media influencers as your pathway to success.
These people are a wee drop on the ocean, no matter how much money they have.
They're not good examples or mentors.
They're entertainers.
More than 50% of them have very short "career" lifespan.
And most of them are illiterates or poorly educated.
Look for educated and enlightened persons to use as mentors.
Study them and follow them.
You don't need to be rich or wealthy in life.
But you should be able to grow or build yourself to a level where you can discern and not be carried away by ephemeral things.
Use your brain.
Use every opportunity that your parents are giving to you and work legitimately hard.
Do not be one of those who beg online to feed and kiss butts.
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Always remember...
Men are the PRIZE.
And women are the PRICE.
There is nowhere a woman is mandated to spend any money during her wedding.
But the man must spend to marry his wife.
She positions herself and wins the PRIZE through femininity, respect and faithfulness.
While he shows love through leadership, protection and provision (PRICE).
That is why the bride is always the happiest during wedding ceremony.
Because she is the winner of the PRIZE.
Good morning.
When I got verified on X in September 2024, I did not pay for it.
I earned it.
And it was premium+
Till today, this page does not have my phone number attached to it.
Something most of you cannot say.
If you want to get anything from me, you must earn it & show legitimacy & consistency.
The free verification that I got, lasted for a year.
Then I decided to pay myself when it expired.
This was why I did an analysis to you all about paying for premium+ and the gains that you are going to get from it.
I paid a full year of premium+ subscription at N384k.
I have gotten back that money 20x over.
And that subscription is going to expire in 9 months' time.
I'm likely to get more than 50x that, before it expires.
So if I advice you to work hard, follow the rules and be strategic, I am only trying to help you.
I can just keep quiet like others are doing.
But I don't like to eat alone.
However, if took me more than 5 years to get to this stage.
Some of you just paid $10, and you're in my DMs giving me headache.
End.
If you can build a community like mine from the scratch to what it is today, you'll understand why I have pride.
I am one of the most insulted social media handle on X.
And you know the sad part?
I was insulted for teaching the right things & reality.
Let God be praised 🙏.
This Is How You Can Build Digital Skills Fast In Nigeria (Thread)
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Let’s be honest…
The economy is hard.
Jobs are scarce.
But digital skills is still the FASTEST way to make money locally or globally.
Here is a simple roadmap to learn any digital skill fast.
No long story.
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🎯 Pick a skill that actually pays
Don’t learn “everything.”
Choose just one from this list:
Data analysis
UI/UX
Graphic design
Video editing
Copywriting
Social media mgmt
Web dev
Digital marketing
AI tools / automation
Pick ONE. Focus on it.
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📱 Use your phone first
You don’t need a laptop to begin.
Most beginners delay because of equipment.
Start with your phone.
You can learn, practice, edit videos, design graphics, write copy - all from your phone.
Your phone is a machine. Use it.
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📚 Free learning platforms that ACTUALLY work
Here are the top free places Nigerians use to learn quickly:
YouTube (start with beginners playlists)
Coursera (Financial aid available)
Google Digital Skills Africa
Udemy (₦3k sales often)
LinkedIn Learning (free month)
FreeCodeCamp (for coding)
No excuses!
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🧪 Learn → Practice → Post your work
The fastest way to grow is to document your journey.
Learned design? Post your designs.
Learned coding? Share mini projects.
Learning video editing? Post before/after edits.
Post on X, LinkedIn, Tiktok, everywhere you can.
Consistency makes people notice you.
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📂 Build a simple portfolio (in 7 days)
Don’t overthink it.
Just gather:
3–5 sample works
A short bio
Your contact
Tools you use
Host it on:
👉 Notion
👉 Canva
👉 Google Drive
👉 GitHub (for coders)
Nobody cares about fancy. Just show proof. Show working.
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🤝 Start working before you feel “ready”
Message small businesses:
“Hi, I noticed your page/website/design/copy can be better. I can help you improve it with [your skill]. Here are my samples.”
Many people have landed jobs this way.
Start with low-cost jobs → build track record → raise prices.
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💼 Go global early
Nigeria is competitive.
The world pays better.
Create accounts on:
Upwork
Fiverr
Contra
LinkedIn
Outlier (Very good for remote jobs)
Your first goal: Get 1 international client.
It changes everything.
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⚡ Use AI to learn faster
AI won’t replace you if you learn to use it.
Use tools like:
ChatGPT
Canva AI
CapCut AI
Notion AI
Mixo AI (landing pages)
Descript (audio/video edits)
AI = speed + quality, if you know how to use it.
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🔋 Stay on it for 30 days
30 days can change your skill level drastically.
Do this daily:
1 hour of learning
1 hour of practicing
20 minutes of posting your work
Small actions → big results.
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💰 Bonus: High-demand skills right now
If you want FAST opportunities, focus on:
Social media management
Video editing
Canva design
Facebook ads
UI/UX
Customer support (remote)
Virtual assistant
Data entry + AI tools
These are easy to learn & easy to monetize.
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🔥 Final take:
You don’t need connections.
You don’t need a laptop.
You don’t need money to start.
You only need discipline + consistency for 30 days.
Digital skills can change your income, location, and you life - faster than anything else.
Regardless of what we want to say about women and pretense.
It's not easy for women to be on this page, & be active for months an years.
Even for men too.
Because stray bullet touches everyone, including me.
But after sometime, the teachings become more familiar with you, & you may find yourself checking yourself to see if you are aligning (no matter how imperfect).
You cannot agree to everything that is being taught here, because we all have different life experiences or circumstances.
But I strongly believe that, what I have been teaching for years, serve as recipe for healthy relationships or marriage.
And to a large extent, they align with what your responsible parents or responsible elders would teach you.
They're not toxic.
They're not deceitful.
They're free.
And they frown entirely against fraud or criminality.
Most importantly, they align with God, & not religion.
Because godly people are imperfect, and religious people are hypocrites.
Over the years, we have read from persons who have met their girlfriends or boyfriends from this community.
Some are even married today.
And some that are married, have started enjoying their marriage like never before.
Some were divorced, and have found love again from this community.
And even single mothers, have found love too.
If you read the banner on my profile, you'd see that it states:
"We are a community of imperfect humans, but keeping it real".
That has always been the goal and vision.
Every other posts outside the core purpose why I am here, are necessary distractions.
Because man must not live by bread alone.
So, my sincere advise to you all (especially singles), is that you should not be discouraged or afraid to meet anyone from this community.
As long as both of are sincere with each other, you can succeed.
Just make sure that:
1) It's not a LDR
2) You as the man, is older
3) You as the man, is not a fraudster or a criminal
4) You as the woman is feminine, not greedy and not too entitled
5) You respect & honor your parents
6) You respect God
7) You as the woman, is not an unrepentant cheat
8) You as the man is not a careless cheat
9) You as the man, is not a 50/50 man
10) You as the man, is not a mummy's boy
11) You as the man, is not a bet or gambling addict
12) You as the women, is not a feminist
13) Both of you have aligned your faith, genotype and other shared values
14) If you're sexually active, make sure that you're sexually compatible
Above all, put God first, in all thy doings.
I wish you all well.
End.