It's 2026. Stop this gutter behaviour of calling a woman an ashawo or a whore simply because she turned you down.
You'll send a girl a DM, showering her with praises about how pretty she is and how she caught your attention. She declines, and all of a sudden, you "realise" she's a whore that every guy on Twitter has slept with. Then you start harassing her on the timeline.
I witnessed something this morning. A girl was walking, and a guy was driving slowly beside her, catcalling her. Maybe he expected her to be impressed by the car, but she wasn't. She just kept walking. Then, all of a sudden, the same guy who had been calling her "fine girl" and "hello, pretty girl" switched up and started insulting her. He said she wasn't even that fine and that she should count herself lucky that a man like him had decided to talk to her.
I mean, you supposedly knew all that before you went after her, but the moment she didn't give you attention, you suddenly came to the conclusion that she wasn't all that beautiful.
As a man, when it comes to chasing women, learn to take your L. You can't possibly get every woman you approach, and that's perfectly okay. You can be rich, handsome, well-travelled, successful, and have all the game in the world, and a woman can still turn you down. It's not something to get riled up about.
Disappointment and rejection are part of life, and I learned that many years ago. Whenever I'm talking to a woman, I don't take it personally. I expect either a yes or a no, and I'm perfectly okay with either answer.
We really need to do better.
@Wizarab10 No sexually active person especially a lady should tell you theyβre celibateβ¦..
Biggest fraud ever in relationships.
Either you are not worth the coochie or itβs been preserved for the current hitman.
If you have been sexually active in your relationship, and your girlfriend tells you that she wants you guys to stop the sex until marriage.
Please do not accept it.
Tell her that it's either the sex continues or the relationship is over.
Women love sex.
If she's no longer giving it to you, she's most likely giving it to someone else.
That's asides cheating as well.
Because single women cheat far more than single men.
End.
You set the tone in the relationship. If you wait till marriage, it is too late. The only difference between the relationship and marriage is the ring - nothing else.
If you don't lead in the relationship, you won't lead in the marriage.