Do you love me?
Will you Respect me as a husband not a partner?
Will you really understand that life has ups and downs, and you will support me at the downs and also Advise me at the ups?
Are you willing to marry me to live forever?
Are you willing to communicate with me when things go south?
I’m marrying you to take responsibility of you and our children but in times of need are you willing to support that journey?
As a muslimah are you willing to commit to duties of marriage from your own part that Allah will judge you?
Are you willing to keep in Religious practice?
Normalize staying away from the environment you were raised in the moment you decide you want to seriously grow in life
Those people will draw you back & slow your growth bc they’ll never easily accept to respect someone they watched grow
Put yourself somewhere out there & watch yourself grow earning each deserved recognition.