I’ve been putting my family first, but my dental health needs are urgent. Living with severe dental issues has affected my confidence, energy, & ability to care for my children.
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Learn which friends you can talk about certain stuff with, do certain things with, go certain places with— if you have all purpose friends that’s amazing — but everything ain’t for everybody. Gotta know your friend for who they are & love them for who they are.
A girl on tik tok said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
take care of your appearance, dress well, wear perfume, and use manners even if you’re just staying home. beauty and elegance isn’t only for the public, it’s for you in your privacy too. a finer way of living.
@bxtchimghtbe@GigiSims1721@artificialdevi1@latkedelrey Agreed! Children can have a hard time differentiating between needs and desires. Seeking to fulfill needs is not negative in itself, but the approach can be.
An example would be asking for a hug or reaching for a hug vs trying to "earn/make a deal/work for" hug.
Does that help?
@artificialdevi1@latkedelrey take a look at your morals and values that you are teaching. It is a choice to give children care and attention, you may need to look inward as you may have some growing up yourself to do.
@artificialdevi1@latkedelrey I have 3 adopted children who have been traumatized by abuse and neglect and they do try to manipulate. Of course my husband and I don't "fall for it" but other family members do. It is a learned coping skill, If your biological children are doing this then you should definitely
Out of my friends and coworkers, no one has been able to solve my bonus puzzle— except for one @MythicalChef, who managed to solve it within the ten seconds limit too.