One of the saddest things to realize is that someone who u thought loved u genuinely was only using u as a placeholder for their own loneliness and desire for romantic obsession and the second that idealization wore off they stopped giving af abt u completely and discarded u
Dating someone who gives you best friend energy, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on the days you need it the most is top tier.
my toxic trait is detachment. i grew up distant so it’s easy for me to lose interest and cut ties. i could miss the shit out of you but never talk to or speak on you again