kahit anong pilit, kahit anong accusations pa ang i-bato sa akin, siya lang talaga eh, siya lang ang laman ng puso't isip ko. kahit bali-baligtarin niyo pa ang mundo.
hindi ko alam kung paano ko pa sasabihin at ipakikita na siya at siya lang ang mahal at gusto ko, kuntento na ako sa kaniya, siya lang ang gusto kong kasama sa lahat ng bagay, kahit bigyan man ako ng isang libong pagpipilian, isang libong beses ko siyang pipiliin.
If you truly love someone, you love them twice. The first time it's all about attraction. Their smile, voice and presence. But slowly the curtain lifts. You see their scars, insecurities, mood swings, trauma and moral differences. It's no longer perfect. It's real. If you can still love them, without filters, without expectations, that's not infatuation. That's a love of understanding. The kind that stays and grows.
In a relationship?
Falling out of love is normal.
Getting tired of the relationship at some point is completely normal.
Only the intentional & wise lovers come out alive.
The truth is that, not many understand that relationships have phases. It takes intentional people to go through all the phases & choose to stand firm.
There are 3 main phases:
There’s the infatuation phase (the sweetest), the reality phase (the hardest), & the adjustment phase (where you’ve made peace with all their flaws).
Only a few make it through the second phase, and the few who get to the adjustment phase have to keep adjusting & compromising till they leave this earth.
Remember, the partner you met 6 years ago will not stay the same 6 years later.
Learning & compromising are constants.
That’s the only way.