Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Being 30 is so funny tbh because it’s so obvious to me now that my frontal lobe is fully developed. I used to be such an incredible little dumb ass. My only regret of my 20’s was how much I centered my life around relationships and not myself.
My grandma always said “toodaloo” instead of goodbye because she hated goodbyes. When she passed away we were on our way to bury her ashes in the cemetery and we were stopped at a traffic light. There was a red Pontiac Sunfire in front of us with a license plate that said “toodaloo” on it. I kid you not we all lost our minds and started crying.
Erykah Badu told us to pack light and most thought it was about luggage.
She meant: stop carrying things that aren't yours.
His shame. His insecurities. His inability to see your value. None of that is yours to carry. Pack light.
You have places to go.
Being a single woman is one of the ultimate forms of spiritual protection.
Some women are so provided for energetically, no one is allowed to interfere with that provision.
The Capricorn Full Moon is today.
This Full Moon is giving you permission to release cycles that had you struggling or fighting for your life.
You know you look too damn good to be holding onto hardships.
in case you didn’t know, butter pecan ice cream exists because Black people in the South weren’t allowed to eat vanilla ice cream in public..because it was white ... so they added butter nd some pecans to it to make it acceptable for them to eat in public.
Just a little reminder on this Juneteenth,and remember that, when you’re eating butter pecan ice cream: the thousands of different acts of resistance, both great nd small, that black folks have had to use to overcome the scourge of white supremacy always ...