Ashley Bender

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@uscfan981 Hot take 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@ThrillaRilla369 As long as I could still go and do things I enjoy, I absolutely would.

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@Jassmini2 Both sides of my family have guns. A lot. I grew up around them. I’ve gone hunting since childhood. I’ve said since I was old enough to have an opinion, getting a gun needs to be more difficult. If you want to buy a gun, you need to meet with a therapist first. It’s too easy.

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@Liza137823 This has to be rage bait

[Mandy Arthur @mandyarthur]

Hey @Grok, completely unrelated to the Hantavirus, what does the word "Hanta" mean in Israeli? Very concise.

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@rajmuker Didn’t anyone ever tell you not to go full retard?

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@FreakGleesh @Pajegetc @luxemiaa I don’t need anyone to take care of me 😂 I pay my bills and live my best life, on MY own dime. The comment was about how we should be happy to save money, all we have to do is pay to raise a man child. Gtfo lmao

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@Pajegetc @luxemiaa As a man, aren’t you supposed to be the provider? You want her to move in, pay all these bills, AND take care of the home? Y’all want a trad wife so fucking bad but dont know how to be a trad husband

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@jv241994 @HPluckrose Are you retarded?

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@WONF4W @ryansatin I honestly expected him to say “I’m not my father but you damn sure are yours” 😂

[Jessica O’Donnell 🏈 @heckyessica]

Wife material right here

[Lauren Chen @TheLaurenChen]

Thinking Timothee Chalamet is more attractive than Henry Caville is what happens when you've been on birth control for 10 years

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@LibertyDagger @BlakeBednarz Grew up hunting with all the men in my family. My dad owns that gun. As soon as they said it I said “no way it was that gun”

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@lady_valor_07 Met both grandma’s mothers, neither grandpa’s mothers.

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@JJWatt I work in a restaurant and if I’m in that situation I’m not tipping. Tipping is for a provided service. A service isn’t being provided when you’re doing it yourself.

[Collins🦋 @collinstimbela_]

I’m gonna get yelled at for saying this… but a lot of women are single because they haven’t met a man who’s better at being a man than they already are.

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@NFTboi19 @thedimitri Rape always has and always will be worse than death

[Megatron @Megatron_ron]

JUST IN:

🇺🇸🇮🇷 Former Congresswoman Marjorie Taylor Greene with a message to the World before the WAR with Iran:

“Dear world, Americans do not support going to WAR. Americans want rich powerful pedos and rapists strung up on gallows”

Full message:

“Dear World,

Americans overwhelmingly do not support going to war. In 2024, we voted to end foreign wars and regime change.

Americans want affordable health, home, and auto insurance and good healthcare.

Americans want rich powerful pedos and rapists strung up on gallows, even if it collapses our own government. They’ve also said wood chippers. (Literally quoting them)

Americans want a good paying job and to be able to buy a nice home.

Americans just want good trade deals and world peace, and we love to travel to many of your lovely countries.

I just thought someone should tell you outside of our ruling class”

[ELIZABETH LANE @imelizabethlane]

I’m going to be blunt. I’ve reached the point where I find Erika Kirk deeply disturbing, not because of rumors or gossip, but because of consistent, observable patterns of behavior. To be clear, everything I say in this post is my opinion, I’m not claiming this is a fact I’m saying this is what I think Erica Kirk is.

I come from the world of acting and modeling. I’ve spent years around social climbers, opportunists, image-curators, and people who treat relationships as ladders, that is why I left that world. Most of these people are shallow and harmless. A few are dangerous. Erika falls into the latter category not because she is just ambitious, but because of how calculated and performative her ambition appears to be. I believe she maybe a psychopath.

What stands out immediately is the reaction she provokes in people, which is very common with psychopaths. Across the board including from people who support her publicly, the private reaction is the same: “I can’t watch her.” Not criticism, just physical discomfort. People turn off interviews because the presentation feels artificial to the point of being unbearable. let me explain:

That kind of response does not happen accidentally, and it does not happen often. Research in psychology shows that humans are highly sensitive to emotional incongruence, mismatches between facial expression, tone, and content. When affect appears simulated rather than genuine, the brain registers it as a threat signal. This activates discomfort and avoidance, even if the person cannot consciously explain why. So many of us felt this way but we could not explain why we could not watch her.

Studies on psychopathy, particularly those building on the work of psychologists like Robert Hare, describe traits such as rehearsed emotional display, and shallow affect. These traits can create what observers experience as an “uncanny” interpersonal dynamic. The discomfort arises and people want to shut it off because most people rarely encounter extreme affective mimicry in everyday life, so the brain struggles to categorize what it is detecting. (Comment below if this is what you felt like when watching her.)

Erica is attractive enough, and she had every tool in her position to sell this organically except for one thing - emotion. The entire story of what happened could have helped her sell this fully, she really would have been the last person on earth to be a suspect, if not for the FBI’s terrible mistakes, TPUSA’s lies, and her very fake performance.

Plenty of attractive, ambitious women move through media spaces without triggering that response, even though we know what they are. This is about something else, an extreme disconnect between presentation she puts out and perceived authenticity.

Erica is not the archetype of a model/actress seeking money and fame and then settling into a quiet life with a wealthy good looking husband. She’s the wolf type. Who wants to be in the place of that husband.She is not born for a supporting role, she’s a decision-maker type. She appears to pursue proximity to power, moving fluidly between television, nonprofits, branding opportunities, and ideological spaces that maximize exposure.

Her previous partners are guys women like her would date, muscular, jacked, good-looking. Even though they are not people with huge potential, they are all somewhat established. They are good stepping stones until the right person shows up. Now, looking at her previous partners, I’d say Charlie probably was not her type visually, but he was exactly what she was looking for in a man - potential to be a great power.

What Erica was looking for is the same thing Hillary Clinton was looking for when she met Bill. She recognized that Bill Clinton was her ticket to power, the power she could control and she was right. She realized she could create a great brand out of him and herself, and they still are a brand. The Clintons. No one in this world can say they love each other. They are a brand that works. This is why she’s sticking around despite Epstein and Lewinsky. Also, if you think Bill is the decision-maker there, you must have never been in close proximity to the Clintons. She moves the game, she is the decision-maker.

Erica saw a brand with Charlie. She also saw that Charlie could one day become President of the United States if he wanted to. Charlie had the ear of the most powerful segment of any society - students! He was going to be a very important player in politics, and she was not missing that ride.

What’s striking is how completely her public identity reshapes itself after that relationship begins. The aesthetic, the tone, the values, the presentation all change. Overnight, the persona shifts into the role that best fits Charlie’s world, devoted Christian, modest, supportive housewife. That kind of rapid adaptation is quite impressive for a usual person but not for a psychopath, they do it all the time.

In my head story goes like this: For a moment, it works. She becomes the wife of a rising political figure with access to donors, institutions, and national platforms. At that point, the ceiling isn’t social media influence, it’s empire-building, foundations, global reach, a legacy brand - Kirks!

It’s obvious that Charlie listens to her, whether it’s about donors or the trajectory of TPUSA. The most influential figure in any mentally healthy man’s life is his wife. She is going to be the biggest influence, and that’s just how it is. That is why you need to pick you partner wisely!

Everything was going well until Charlie makes decisions based on conscience rather than expansion and money. He turns down money. He refuses to play dirty politics. I’m assuming someone like Erica who married into this because she had a vision for this brand would not be very happy that. The life she appears to have signed up for - power couple, expanding influence, historical relevance, was collapsing into something else entirely, domesticity, housewife kids and now Charlie's refusing to accept the money that can make him a global power. A supporting role instead of center stage is not her thing.

Her husband died a few days ago, and she walks onto the stage as if she were born there. It comes naturally to her, she knows it, and she wants it. Just days after her husband’s death, she was already laying out ambitious plans for the company over Zoom. It’s obvious she was always deeply involved in the business and knew exactly where to pick up when her turn came.

What people struggle to watch, what makes the screen unbearable, is not grief. It’s the absence of emotional continuity. Performances can be learned, trust me, as a former actress I can speak to that, but emotion can’t be improvised or mimicked if you’ve never experienced it. That’s why I think we are dealing with a psychopath who has never really experienced these emotions and does not know how to play them. And audiences feel it instantly. It’s fake. Again just my opinion.

This isn’t an accusation of crime, I’m not claiming this is what happened and it's a fact. It’s an analysis I made after watching her long enough. And quite honestly I am sick of this shit.

[Ashley Bender @cupcakeboss72]

@SherylMarie71 @AlBuffalo2nite Do you want equal rights or special treatment? It can’t be both. Men don’t owe us dinner because we deign to go out with them. We aren’t entitled to a free meal just because we’re gracing a man with our presence.