If someone avoids hard conversations, they avoid real connection. Relationships don't break from honesty, they break from silence. They break from pretending everything's fine. Vulnerability doesn't destroy love. Avoidance does. Every unsaid truth becomes distance.
as i get older, iโm starting to realize that the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make you feel. in any bond how much they care about you is found in how much they consider you.
Sometimes as an adult you have to decide "this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way" and stand on it. Be it family, a relationship or a friendship.
I used to think communication was a key until i realized comprehension is. You can communicate all you want with someone but if they donโt understand you or refuse to understand, communication is useless.
There's certain people that you cannot speak on specific topics with because they don't have the range, the knowledge, the empathy or the depth, to even understand where the fck you're coming from.
we have literal psychological evidence that having to constantly ask a partner to do things exacerbates stress, burnout, and overall poor mental health.
Iโll never understand white people who have Black family members and then vote for people who will hurt them and objectively make the world worse for them ๐คท๐พโโ๏ธ
@_6signxxx Resentment. They get mad at their mothers instead of their fathers and it becomes a downward spiral. Especially if they get involved with like-minded boys at a young age. Then all of a sudden, disrespect to women becomes common place. To them, women are good for one thing.