ga semua yang kita doain harus jadi milik kita, kaya pintu, sometimes you can knock as many time as you want, tapi kalau memang ga dibukain, lo juga ga bisa terus berdiri di depannya, at some point, you have to accept that maybe memang segitu takarannya. bukan berarti lo kalah, you’re just choosing to stop fighting something you can’t control