We had a really mean python at work and I gave him back to his owner and was like “he was trying to kill me” and his owner said “well, he only has so many ways to interact with the world. All he has is a face” and it Moved Me
Unlearn shame. All kinds of shame: abuse, unemployment, sickness, vulnerability, longing, desire, mistakes, failures. You need not be ashamed of what you're feeling or living. Freedom and shame cannot coexist.
Aniya mounting Carl and talking about wanting to hunch on him right then and there goes to show that the body knows when someone is good for you & when someone is bad for you. Bc she got comfortable FAST
A part of taking ur power back is clocking urself cause clocking that ur a participant in some of the unpleasant aspects of life negates any space left for u to feel like a victim. If someone was ever so bad how did y’all end up friends or fuckin. It says sumn bout u too.