Aftercare is a necessity, not a k*nk, it you degrade your sub during s*x, then ensure that they know that out of the s*x that none of it is true. They won't be in the same headspace and it can really affect them if they do believe the words you called them.
Ways to make me feel tiny..
- Adding "Oh?" and "Yea?" and phrasing things like questions when talking to me..
- Saying Im too little to do something
- PETNAMMEEESSS
- Guiding me through things
- Checking up on me! Asking if I have done things and taken care of myself!!
‘what is it honey? just one second… alright, what do you need my baby? you just wanted my attention? that’s alright, love, but just remember that sometimes papa just needs to finish his conversation! now that i’m all done, we can play or cuddle or do whatever you’d like.’