Unpopular opinion: being nice to everyone is not the same as being a good person.
Character shows in how you treat people when you have nothing to gain from them.
Unpopular opinion: being nice to everyone is not the same as being a good person.
Character shows in how you treat people when you have nothing to gain from them.
My friend told me something about her boyfriend that I honestly didn’t know how to process.
She said whenever they had an argument, he would call his female best friend and tell her everything.
At first, she didn’t mind.
Until one night, they had a really serious fight. He left the house and, instead of going to his friend, he went straight to the other woman’s house.
The next morning, he came back acting normal.
She asked where he had been.
He said, “I just needed someone to talk to.”
She later found out they had been talking almost every night for months.
Now she’s asking herself a question she can’t answer:
If your partner has another woman he runs to emotionally whenever things get difficult, is that still just friendship?