The notion that a man will treat the woman he “truly wants” right has done so much damage to young women’s discernment. It’s never been about this dream girl. It’s always been about men’s lack of character. You understand this, the less you internalize how they view/treat you.
I’m glad I had a child. It has expanded me as a person and softened me as a woman but also made me stand on business & be my full self without apology.
Difference between me & a lot of other females is that idc to be the baddest, I just want to be happy with myself, Waking up loving where Im at & who I’m with. How I feel spiritually is my ultimate goal Nothing materialistic can amount to that.
A man will do what’s best for him every single time and not lose a minute of sleep about how it affected you. He’ll lie, move weird, disappear, double back and still be peaceful. Meanwhile you up stressing, replaying conversations, trying to figure out where you went wrong. Choose you like he choose himself
The reason a lot of moms don’t do this is they understand one fundamental thing, you are not leaving your most precious thing in the world with a person that has shown you they can hate you more than they love them. .
Ladies please don’t relax when you are in a relationship, go to gym, do your monthly beauty maintenance, look beautiful and go out with your friends to have fun and continue posting yourself. Take care of yourself. Don’t let a man make you weak you’ll regret it.
PLEASE STOP making it seem like it’s normal for the mother to have all the responsibilities for the kids. It’s not normal. It’s stressful and draining.