I genuinely fell for someone when I wasn't searching for love, I was searching for peace. I was searching for myself and found a friend who became the love of my life. Sometimes you need to focus on growing yourself and you'll run into what's destined for you.
Living in private, dating in private, making money in private, healing in private, unlearning in private, and growing in private is top tier self-care. Normalize being private and letting them assume and be wrong about you while you work on yourself and evolve into the new you.
Having someone in your life who genuinely finds u interesting to talk to everyday and knowing that you’re worth their time is honestly one of the best feelings ever. 🙃