is it just me or…
whenever i tell smb about a situation im upset about AKA venting i don’t need advice - i most likely already know the solution to it
what i do need is to be shown compassion or to be comforted, it’s practically the only real reason most people vent
@heavenlyangelu i’ve always had this rule of thumb where you show them compassion and comfort first to get them in a more rational state of mind so that advice can come second and actually be listened to