Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia

diligent, hardworking, strong , efficient, family and career oriented , loves God passionately , A believer of Christ . I try to stand for what is right

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

10 LIFE HACKS/ADVICES MANY OF YOU PROBABLY NEED AND SHOULD KNOW FROM EARLY ADULTHOOD:

1. Life is much better when no one knows anything about you.

2. Never force anyone to choose you. Never beg to be loved. Choose genuineness and naturalness.

3. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and use you as a tool for achieving theirs.

4. Free yourself from the chains of society's advice. Most of them have no idea what they are doing.

5. Your are at peace with yourself when you mind your own business.

6. Life WON'T wait for you to be okay. Get up from your comfort zone and keep pushing.

7. Master your emotions. A clear and calm mind can handle any situation.

8. You need to take people for who they are, not want you want them to be. This way, you avoid disappointment and learn to live in harmony with your environment. You become happier.

9. Make sure you take care of yourself cosif anything happens to you, the world would move on.

10. Be smart enough to create your opportunities. Don't wait for them to come to you. Working to create them is a form of PRAYER which will be answered someday.

Spread this if you found it helpful. Someone might need it on their journey to maturity.

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

@maxvayshia Happy birthday Doc, you are amazing.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Everyone is busy handling one issue or the other in their private lives. Many others are making very bad decisions on their journeys through life. Ones that they are not proud of. Decisions and actions that indeed bring shame to them if let out of the bag.

But the interesting thing about many of these people is that they still move on and do what they want in their lives but are the very vocal ones in JUDGING the actions of others, criticising them ruthlessly, like Popes and Counter-Popes.

This is why living your life based on the opinions of others is stupid. People are making worse choices than you in their private lives. If you hand them your own life on a platter to judge, they would jump at it without hesitation and pull you down in the spirit of hypocrisy.

Be open to new knowledge and corrections but LIVE YOUR LIFE AND NEVER BE AFRAID TO MAKE YOUR MISTAKES! Only you walk your path and only you would benefit from the lessons you learn from the mistakes.

Make your mistakes, learn from them and march forward. Do not let the criticisms of others deter you. Be attentive but sieve the relevant opinions and ignore the rest, for there is NO ONE so pure that they do not have to struggle with themselves in their little corners where no one is watching.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

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[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

@ThaBoyYom 80 🙂

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

We are not even noticing how fast our society is dying. In this generation,

Toxicity has been replaced with being oneself.

Terrible attitude to life is blamed on Zodiac traits. No desire to work on oneself.

Being entitled is now being woke.

You talk too much and you say it is being confident.

You are very fat and badly shaped but you dress almost NAKED, rub in people’s face unprovoked and call it confidence in your skin.

Arrogance is called having self worth.

Greed is being ambitious.

Crime is now called hustle.

Cheating your fellow human being is now called Street Smart.

Laziness and Indolence is now called protecting your peace.

Skin bleaching is now called skin care.

Avoiding accountability and responsibility is now called protecting your mental health.

Being inconsiderate and a total nuisance to the environment is now called being misunderstood.

Being unforgiving is now called setting boundaries.

Ingratitude replaced by knowing your worth.

Living recklessly is called living your best life.

Being selfish is now called self love.

Irresponsibility and lack of financial planning is now excused with “The future will take care of itself”.

Being rude, insultive and abusive is now called being real.

Correction is being envious and judgmental.

We are basically a fast dying species who pride ourselves in advancing in civilization, living in modern age and leaving the 50s behind.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

You are not an introvert. You just haven’t met the right person.

[Oku @oku_yungx]

THE DANGERS OF OVERSHARING ON SOCIAL MEDIA 💀👏

Some of you overshare like the internet is your personal diary, then wonder why life hits you from angles you never expected. Every day, you drop sensitive details about your family, your relationships, your struggles…information that should never see daylight and you hand it to millions of strangers who don’t care about you beyond the next post.

This app is not your therapist and the timeline isn’t your friend. Some of you are literally building the blueprint for your own destruction and calling it “being real.” No. It’s being careless. There’s power in silence. There’s safety in mystery. Not everyone deserves front-row access to your life. And the moment you understand that, you’ll stop feeding people ammunition they’ll gladly use against you.

Be guided accordingly.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

This man was FALSELY accused of defiling his two daughters. He has been proven innocent. Please help RT to save his reputation.

We must protect the name and reputation of INNOCENT men and make every disgustingly evil woman accountable and PAY for their deeds.

It starts small.

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

Happy birthday to me, the Lord has been faithful.

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

@maxvayshia Omo I want to make it for my dad oo, that man is my everything

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

To those who would care to listen and to whom it may concern:

You are on earth to mature your spirit and forge ahead. This is supposed to happen through your interactions with your fellow human beings (including close and distant friends and family) and your environment. Using the RIGHT knowledge, learning, building…maturing. Step by step. Digit by digit.

In this journey, you will make mistakes through your decisions. It is expected. What is important is the lessons you learn after each fall. The getting up. You will make many mistakes and that is okay. You aren’t perfect and that is why you are here in the first place and not in the realm of the perfect ones….Paradise.

Make your mistakes, NEVER be afraid to make them. Own your mistakes and while you are tempted to get taken by the judgment of people, remember that they are on the same journey with you, making their own mistakes which you might never know about.

Listen to advice but move with confidence and a volition for what is good, better and noble. Again, make your mistakes but in all you do, make sure that you are living YOUR LIFE and not the lives of other people, making YOUR DECISIONS and not that of others.

When this life is over, life of which was granted to YOU ALONE when you came here, make sure you are leaving the earth satisfied that despite all your mistakes, you lived YOUR LIFE and didn’t live according to the wishes of judgement of people. The decisions were all yours. Own them with pride but with a firm resolution to be open to learning and improvement and God’s Grace and Mercy would NEVER leave you alone, not here, not in the afterlife.

Live your life.

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

@BenRmc_ @oku_yungx Yes a widow is a single mum, I know it's hard to accept but that's the reality.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

So, after all the depositions on this topic on MARRIAGE. Let me now drop my advice to you all. Read if you want and if you want, scroll past. You don't have to listen.

Marriage as ORIGINALLY ordained by the Almighty was mercifully granted by Him as an AID to man in his sojourn through life's roads, an AID to BOTH man and woman without one being a gift to the other. Both are a useful helpers to eachother.

However, marriage itself IS NOT and has NEVER been a prerequisite for earthly fulfillment or living a happy life. You can remain single and still live a very fulfilling life. Many have done it in ages past. The decision is yours alone cos only YOU wears the shoes and knows your journey. No two human spirits are the same and NO HUMAN SPIRIT was wired to have its existence dependent on another human spirit. This is how it is.

But as with EVERYTHING else God has made available to man as a blessing, he (the human being) has RUINED everything and dragged it to the level of sham and falsehood. The institution of Marriage TODAY is an abominable caricature of what was originally ordained and the laws of man (earthly laws) and the society and the most wanting criminals in this.

This is so bad that majority don't even know why they marry. The society demands it. You wouldn't get any political appointment if you don't, you can have children in an orthodox way, etc.

Way forward? Despite all of these, there are a few people on this earth who, consciously or unconsciously, still live according to the Will of the Almighty even in the concept of marriage, relationship and harmonious living. These spirits COULD find eachother (or not in this lifetime).

Your job is to keep an open mind while keeping your conviction in the right road HARD AS BURNING STEEL. Never letting go of this knowledge where the world loses its head.

Keep an open heart and if along your path, your spirit finds that person who stands uniquely in this present day confusion, be with that person in a union which doesn't even necessarily have to be the man-made contraption and concept of marriage on earth. Being in a union is more of a SPIRITUAL than an earthly thing and MANY genuine matches that are made in heaven are not even known by the registries or society.

There is hardly a time in Creation when the ways of men aligned with the Will of God. Mark this well.

If however, life doesn't bring this unique soul your way and you have to walk alone, do it without fear but with confidence and gratitude cos there is absolutely no one who cannot fulfill (you must first know what true fulfillment is according to the Will of God for you to understand this. Fulfillment here is not how many cars or houses or iPhones or physical homes you are able to have or build) without marriage......only if he truly wishes!

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

Happy birthday doc @maxvayshia may your days on earth be long and filled with good health and a sound mind.

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

@maxvayshia Happy birthday Doc, may your days on earth be long and healthy. God bless you

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

Do you remember when you joined X? I do! #MyXAnniversary

[Osonwa Ngozi Cynthia @cyberry21]

@maxvayshia Amen especially those guys that swap cards.

[Avril Amaka @avrilamaka]

Men have always known they need women, that’s why they propose, protect, and provide.
Modern feminism told women they don’t need men. Now both sexes are lonelier, angrier, and worse off.
It’s made men less chivalrous, and women less feminine which was our natural, happy state. We were designed to complement each other, not compete.

[David Hundeyin @DavidHundeyin]

PSA:

If you're a Nigerian in Nigeria and anybody comes to you with an offer to relocate to Ghana/Cote d'Ivoire/Burkina Faso/any other country in West Africa with a job or hustle supposedly waiting for you, you can safely assume that they intend to traffick you. There is no job anywhere in West Africa. In fact you're more likely to find a job in Nigeria than in any of those places.

If you are female, there is a 99% chance you will end up in the only activity that trafficked women do, and if you are male, you will end up locked up in a house where you will be forced to scam people online, ask your friends and family to send you money (which your captors will seize), or convince other people like you back home to fall into the same trap. If you're REALLY unlucky and young enough, you might end up becoming somebody's slave inside a Galamsey pit, or enslaved to a fisherman somewhere on Lake Volta for the next 8 years (this is actually a thing that happens).

I know this tweet will not change anything, because many of you have been brainwashed into believing that everywhere outside Nigeria is flowing with honey and gold dust and your "star" resides anywhere but Nigeria, but on the off chance that it helps convince 0.1% of potential victims to sit their asses at home and find something to do, instead of becoming anonymous roadkill in Kasoa, then I have done my job.