It doesn't matter what is happening around us or the world,let believe everything will be fine.
Let nothing steal your joy.
Be happy,stay happy.
Happy New month
This was the man who murdered my dad’s friend daughter in 2011 by stabbing her over 77 times in various parts of her body, his Name is AKOLADE AROWOLO
He was a RCCG youth pastor and the church tried to subvert justice back then
She was the breadwinner of the house while him a struggling youth pastor with no job or funds and heavily rely on her salary s a banker
Their daughter was just 3yrs old when this useless man took my friend’s life
It started from small beating and shouting then it became a regular thing
We fought hard for her to leave this useless man alone but she always find an excuse for him
Every week is a different mark on her face filled with heavy makeup and shades to hide her scars
She didn’t come to work on that said day and her colleagues got worried and had to call me cos we work in close proximity to each other, I was clueless to on why she didn’t show to work and put a call across her phone and BBM but none went through
Her colleague persuaded me we should both go to her house during our lunch break and we went, on getting to her house her flat doors were locked, it was when I peeped through the kitchen window I saw blood and screamed for help, the kitchen door at the back of the flat got broken and what I saw was her lifeless body in the pool of her own blood
I almost screamed the whole building down with the whole neighborhood rushing down towards the kitchen,it was the most awful crime scenes I’ve ever seen
This horrible man lied she stabbed herself to death and his church supported him until a great pathologists proved them wrong and he was finally sentenced to death by hanging in 2019 and still waiting to be hanged
If you want people to talk about men to stop beating their wives then I’m not the kind of person, if you don’t leave when I advice you to leave then be prepared for whatever outcome you get cos you can see the rates of FEMICIDE in recent years
I’ve written this story over and over again on this platform to encourage women to leave at the first sign of violence
Leave to LIVE
I’m Stranded in Lagos guys
I Need Your Support 🙏
Hi, my name is Esther Ubak. I came all the way from Akwa Ibom State to Lagos for an exhibition, full of hope and excitement, dreaming that this trip would open doors for my craft and creativity.
I’m a startup without funding anywhere, and to make this trip possible, I had to borrow money from friends, gather materials, and cover my travel expenses, all with the hope that the exhibition would be a success.
But things didn’t turn out as I expected. The exhibition didn’t go as planned, and now, I’m faced with the reality of having to refund every single amount I borrowed.
I really need the support I can get right now.
So here I am, still in Ajah, Lagos, with all the beautiful, handcrafted, upcycled pieces I brought along. I cannot go back home until they are sold, and every piece carries the love, time, and creativity I poured into it.
Below this post are the products available for pickup, each with its price tag clearly displayed.
So If you’re in Lagos and love unique art, this is your chance to grab something special.
📍 Location: Ajah, Lagos
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If you can’t afford a piece right now, you can still share this post, refer a friend, or invite someone who might love them. Your support, big or small really means the world and can help turn this setback into a blessing. 🙏
Hello @victorosimhen9 i would love to cook for you and your friends if possible when you are in Nigeria.
I own a small business that caters to taste buds and give grand satisfaction.
My kitchen is mostly known for traditional delicacies, i would appreciate your patronage🥹🙏.
My husband has been my driver for the past 10 years of our marriage.
He drives me to work.
Drives me for my business.
Drives me for shopping.
Anywhere I want to go.
I don’t drive. He does.
He does it so well that if he comes home and doesn’t meet me in the house, he will call, locate me, come and pick me wherever I am, and bring me back home. Not from control, but from care. He simply doesn’t want his wife to stress herself.
Recently, I decided to register for my theory test so I can do my practical and start driving. Oga has already declared that he will not allow me to drive at night because he doesn’t joke with his wife.
For 10 years, he has been consistent.
There were days we both had night shifts. He would finish his own by 6am, drive straight to my workplace, park in front of my company, and sleep in his car until I closed by 8am. Then he would happily take me home, after collecting his kiss 😁
Yes, he gets a kiss when he drops me off.
And another one when he picks me up.
One day, a colleague mistook him for a homeless man because he was sleeping in his car outside our office. I laughed and told her, “That’s my husband.”
Over the years, many people have mistaken him for my driver. He would drive me somewhere, park patiently, and wait in his car until I was done. No complaints. Not once in 10 years.
Love doesn’t always shout.
Sometimes it waits quietly in a parked car at 6am. And no he is not a simp, he is just expressing love in his own way.
Sometimes, you read a story that makes the blood in your veins run cold.
Blessing's baby, Victory, was born premature and diagnosed with hydrocephalus (fluid in the brain), and she needs an urgent ₦1,000,000 surgery to survive.
Instead of support, Blessing’s husband called her a witch for having a sick child and threw her and their baby out onto the street.
Now, Blessing is alone, fighting for her daughter's life with nothing.
Her husband turned his back, but we will not.
AprokoNation, let's be the family she needs right now. Let's save Victory.
Account Name: Obukohwo Blessing
Account Number: 3581115542
Bank: EcoBank
If you cannot donate, please, I am begging you, your retweet is a powerful gift. It might be the one that brings the help this mother and child desperately need. God bless you.
On March 15th, I’ll be attempting to break the Guinness World Record for the “Fastest Time to Visit All Seven Continents” - one of 2 records this month.
This is the scariest tweet I’ve ever written, but it makes sense because it’s about the scariest thing I’ve ever had to do…
I don’t know if this will ever go far but let me be able to say I tried. I want to model for a big clothing brand, I don’t really have a big portfolio, but I know fits do really look good on me and will bring about the requests you need.
I truly do not want to struggle next year - and I say this from the deepest parts of my heart.
I unsubscribe from that life, and press towards softness.
I need things to be smooth and soft for me.
So shall it be.
One beautiful thing you need to know about love: the greatest evidence of its existence, is genuine care. The most tender and yet, fiercest form of it. You see, I’ve come to deeply realize that when someone truly considers you to be an important part of their life, they CARE. It’s just that straightforward.
And the best part? You can see just how much they care in everything they do.
This letter is just to one person.
One of the craziest things that can happen to you is knowing or being around friends/people who have things going for them smoothly. And it just seems like your own life is dead stagnant.
I mean, you know the guy on the billboard you just passed in a bus. Your other friends are doing great things in their industries; sharing news of promotions and nothing just seems to be happening in your own camp!
Heck, the good part of society already said: “comparison is the killer of joy and greatness”. But in this case, you don’t have a choice than to think of your life in comparison to your current realities. Because you have thought of every other thing!
Is my life slow? Am I under a curse? What’s going on? You have asked these questions too!
Hey champ, if you in this boat, stay strong! Your moment is coming soon. Just make sure you are doing something and that thing God has placed in your hands doesn’t die!
Cheers.
Oga HR.
Originally I was going to ignore this quote but I have a stronger nudge to make it a learning experience for you, Peter.
Read carefully.
Regardless of how long a way you think you have to go, there are people behind you.
Regardless of how far ahead a person eventually think they are, there are people ahead of them.
The mistake young people make today. The mistake you're currently making - is the misplacement of competition.
The only reason why "embarrassment" is your instant primal response is because you've subconsciously layered me as your "competition".
I am not your competition. No one should be your competition. YOU are YOUR competition.
Every single day you wake up, make efforts and improved yourself by 1% - you've won.
I started competing daily with myself over 15 years ago - I saw no other person and I was winning daily.
I share this as an intro because the most substantial redirect a man's life can take is dependent on his perspective.
- How you see things
- why you see things the way you see them.
If I leave a pair of scissors on the table.
A seamstress would instantly think about clothes & a surgeon would see a splicing instrument.
Both perspectives however relatively valid, are an expression of their individual inputs.
Inputs are shaped by who you listen to, who your fashion your life after, your repeated actions that have now become habits.
When you see others with edges you admire - instead of selfdevaluation, you ask yourself:
- how did they get there?
- what did they have to do to get there?
- how can I replicate?
- what is my first step?
When you admire a person's writing skills - your primal response shouldn't be embarrassment?
"How did they get there?"
- Read more
- Expand the range of books you consume
- Write more
- Spend time with high level podcasts
- Attend high level seminars
- Be intentional who you follow and listen to
- Watch what you give your mental space to.
You can acknowledge the mental, physical, financial superiority of others without necessarily feeling inferior. This is the ultimate litmus test of ESTEEM because you sef no small.
There are people more handsome, more academically sound, more intelligent than I am. I acknowledge it.
BUT I am not inferior to them. They wouldn't say anything, do anything, carry a task the way I would because in the world of competition, there's only one person I see.
You know what - fuck it, I'll do a space session this evening.
In June 2022, I had a wedding to attend so I went to my designer friend’s store for fittings. As I ascended the stairs, I remembered that I hadn’t returned the call of an acquaintance whom I’m fond of and I believe she feels the same about me. I stopped by the stairs and called her; she said she wanted to congratulate me on the opening of the new Dang! store and that she was one of the people who crashed the website during the first day of the mid-year sale as she, like many people, stayed up till midnight to buy her products. We shared some jokes, laughed then she got off the phone.
I remembered something else I wanted to ask her so I didn’t get off the phone as soon as she did.
May you experience true love, and may it continue to flourish and grow, and when life comes to test the strength of your love, may you face the challenges together, hand in hand, teaming up against the problem.
May you be blessed with a partner who embraces your true self with kindness, compassion, and understanding.
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Good luck
Dear Twitter Nigeria,I am appealing to you all for your help to save my life to stay alive to nurse my new born child.
I got traditionally married recently and took in.
I thought that was the best thing that happened to me, everything was going well until I entered 35th week.
Dear pure heart.
You haven’t been feeling like yourself lately, have you? It constantly feels like you’re not performing up to par, aren’t doing enough, like you’ve lost some of your spark and even your genius. Hey, breathe❤️
Your mind and body are just taking a down time. Let them. Rest can be productive too. When you’ve made full recovery, watch how you’ll shine again, you bright star✨