I genuinely find it attractive. I love having a lot of woman to grab and hold on. A lot of men find this attractive, they’re just reluctant to admit it because they’ll be criticized by other men. Surprisingly, it’s only men who care if other men date women like this.
Foreplay starts outside the bedroom and before the clothes come off. It’s in the eye contact, the flirting, the banter, the laughing together, the teasing, the texts, the little touches throughout the day.
Men need sex like women need reassurance. Same need, different mechanic. He goes a week untouched and starts acting unhinged; she goes a few days unacknowledged and starts detaching silently. Men fall apart without intimacy, women fall apart without consistency. No “gm,” no “home safe?”, no “I got you,” no “we good?”…and you expect softness out of that? Be so serious. Make her feel wanted and she’ll give her all; make her feel ignored and she’ll disappear like she was never there. Reassurance is her pre-game. Starve her emotionally and she’ll revoke your whole membership. Men want attention, peace, loyalty, touch… but can’t send ONE message? Boy, bffr. Same need expressed differently. he wants touch, she wants consistency.
if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. you’re entitled to your preferences. but what you’re not gonna do is date a girl who’s not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.